A few weeks ago, DG Cindy gave us all a friendly nudge to Reach Out (check in with someone and find out what’s going on in their world), Invite (ask someone to do something with you), and Appreciate (well, that one speaks for itself!).
I’ve been trying to weave those ideas into my life — both personal and Rotary (my husband, Mark, insists they’re the same thing… he might not be wrong).
During one of my “reach-outs,” I discovered a fellow Rotarian reading a book about finding joy. That stopped me for a minute — because really, how do we find joy? My Rotarian pal said the author’s advice was simple: slow down, be present, and let joy in. (Easier said than done, right?) The premise is that joy is always there. We just need to allow it, to feel it.
Then I remembered Pat Simpson’s recent inspiration about giving — giving from the heart without expecting recognition. At first, I thought only of financial giving. But the more I reflected, the more I realized: giving anything — time, attention, kindness, a listening ear — can bring joy, if we’re open to it.
Every time we share our time, treasure, or talent as Rotarians… when we check in on a friend… when we invite someone to join us for coffee or a project… or when we simply appreciate each other — those are all tiny doorways where joy can sneak in.
And maybe one of the greatest gifts we can give each other is a little civility, kindness, and understanding — even when it’s not easy. Especially when it’s not easy.
Because when we give from the heart, joy doesn’t have to be chased down. It just shows up — and takes a seat right beside us.
With warm Rotary hugs and much gratitude,