As I write this newsletter, the power at my house has been out for 18 hours and counting. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve walked into a dark hallway and flipped the light switch — even though I know nothing is going to happen. Habits are funny like that… we trust certain things will always be there.
And still, even without power, I realize how fortunate I am. Our wood stove keeps us warm and cozy. We can make hot coffee and soup; our home is safe and dry. Meanwhile, some of my neighbors can’t even use their gas fireplaces because they require electricity to ignite. No hot coffee or coziness for them. Once again, I’m reminded that “inconvenience” for me might be hardship — or even crisis — for someone else.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how many parts of my life I just assume will always “be there,” because — well — they always have been. Until they’re not.
That sense of perspective came flooding back to me again when I was at Adopt-an-Angel. Standing there among mountains of toys, coats, books, and gifts — all carefully organized by age and size, all made possible by dozens of volunteers — I was overwhelmed by what compassion looks like when it’s lived, not just spoken. It made me deeply proud to be a Rotarian. But it also reminded me that for many families, the struggle isn’t just at the holidays. It’s daily. It’s exhausting. And it’s real.
Then yesterday, a quick grocery run to pick up a few items turned into a $92 reality check. And yes — I am still recovering from paying $7 for All-Bran. (If you’ve ever eaten it, you know — that’s basically paying premium pricing for twigs.) But again… how lucky am I that I could laugh about it instead of worry about it?
So as we move into this season of reflection, I’m going to make a list — a gratitude list, a “miracle list,” a reminder of how much good fills my life. I know Rotary, and the friendships and connections we share, will be right there at the top. And yes, I’m hoping I’ll have electricity back by the time you read this!
But more importantly, I hope we all let gratitude soften us. I hope compassion opens our eyes a little wider. I hope this season reminds us that kindness is not seasonal décor — it’s a way of living. We in Rotary are privileged not just to feel grateful, but to do something with that gratitude. We get to turn it outward — into love, service, laughter, hope, and help.
May we keep noticing how good we have it.
May we keep seeing those who don’t.
And may we continue to share the light we have — even when the power goes out.
With gratitude, warmth, and holiday cheer… let’s carry that spirit forward together.
With warm Rotary hugs,